I am so sorry your girlfriend and you broke up...I really am, but I have some words of encouragement:
1. God is with you always and he loves you...no ands, ifs, or buts.
2. God is with you always and he loves you...no ands, ifs, or buts. (yes it is that important I wrote it twice.)
3. God has a perfect purpose for you, and he knows what it is, even if you don't.
I consider it a purpose not a plan. I feel he has something(s) in store for you, that you can do many different ways...an example is you can fulfil that purpose with or without your past girlfriend. I see the difference between a plan and a purpose like a blueprint and riding a river...with a blueprint you cant adjust it, you have to stick to it in everyway. Whereas with riding a river you can make adjustments with your paddle so you arent riding it based on a specific path, you are making adjustments as you ride, or in this case as you walk thru the different trials in your life.
You will accomplish God's great purpose for you, it just may not include this girl, it still could involve this girl...it may include a girl far better for you, or maybe not a girl at all.
4. God works in mysterious ways, and he is working right now.
I had told you that my girlfriend and I had broken up, which was hard for me, and it took a couple days, but after that, I was totally fine. I understand that that was pretty fast to get over her, but God works in Mysterious ways!
A week after we broke up, I played softball and on my way to third base from a monster shot to the outfield
(Im what you would call a pretty big deal) I jumped over
the third baseman (actually third baseWOMAN) to avoid being tagged out...to which I ran home and scored.
YOU may be asking yourself, "There goes Fury being all weird and random again!" Well brothers....here me out.
I am currently "seeing" that third basewoman I jumped over.
We arent dating but are just taking things a little slow...because the first time we met was me hurdling over her.
So a week after my girlfriend broke up with me I met this wonderful Christian woman (a year older than me
) by playing church league softball and simply not wanting to be tagged out at third base.
Fr3aky, if God can introduce me to an absolutely stunningly beautiful, wonderful Christian woman, who is always laughing and happy, by intersecting our paths at a Church League Softball game on the basepath between 2nd and 3rd, in the Middle of Nowhere, SOUTH DAKOTA, a week after a previous breakup...He can do anything. He is working in your life right now...and you really have nothing to fear, but fear itself
. Because he is there, and he is working in your life, and he is in control...so you dont hav to worry...dont fear what will happen because its in God's hands.
God may have ADD and decide to do things a little away from the norm sometimes, like letting me jump high enough to clear this girl so that we could form a relationship, but it is only so we can understand that he has a purpose and His purpose is simply...perfect
Fr3aky, he is with you, no matter what, and you cant change that...and Thank God for everyday he gives you.
-not Fury, not Vigilant, or anything else...
--Jon, your brother in the Lord Jesus Christ